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The fear of getting caught
Many of the executives I work with have this fear of “being caught” or “seen naked” I think what they really mean is being seen as vulnerable. Like it’s unprofessional or some sort of liability. I don’t buy it. Displaying vulnerability simply means your being human, just like everyone else at work. That’s it. The…
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What’s going on
One of the things a coach should be good at, is listening. Not only to what you say but also the beliefs, values, emotions and thoughts behind what you’re saying. After we get to know them a bit, sometimes we notice that there is incongruency between desires and goals and their beliefs or values. So,…
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In your mind
The analogy here is that, in our minds, we can bounce back and forth between thinking we’re climbing the ladder to heaven or stepping into hell. Thoughts are important for sure. But you are not your thoughts. Feel free to tell them to go f@ck themselves when they aren’t serving your needs. If you really…